Understanding Addiction and the Addicted
People can sometimes be harsh and judgmental. An addict or someone currently in rehab might be dismissed without preamble as riffraff — people lower in the “food chain” or something similar. That’s just the way the world goes — many aren’t usually too keen on examining other people’s character or delving too deep into the roots of issues, for example. As such, there are few who truly understand the formerly and currently addicted. Thing is, when you don’t understand what someone who’s addicted to substance feels, how can you help? To be able to truly be an effective way to help someone through rehab, one should be able to understand the person in question.
What goes inside the head of an addict? Let’s not get into the reasons why someone chooses to do substance abuse, instead, let’s focus on what someone who’s already become an addict thinks and feels. The one thing you should know about addiction is that it strips off emotion from a person. When someone is currently on drugs, expect that person to be “detached” from the real world. Imagine yourself watching a boring TV show. You sit down on the couch, chew your popcorn and watch TV without much interest. That’s how someone who’s currently on drugs feels. That is why many use drugs to desensitize themselves from life’s everyday vicissitudes.
Now, knowing this, knowing that someone who’s taken drugs is detached from the real world, what does it mean for the rest of us? For one, it means that if we want to help someone out of their addiction, it’s important to understand that in order to do so, you must help them regain emotions lost. Only by regaining humanly emotions can you set them straight and make them see that’s what their doing is destroying their lives.
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